I read this post on Seth Godin’s blog last week. Gave me some good thoughts.
January 11
“I’ve Got Your Back…
These are the words that entrepreneurs, painters, artists, statesmen, customer service pioneers and writers need to hear.
Not true. They don’t need to hear them, they need to feel them.
No artist needs a fair weather friend, an employee or customer or partner who waits to do the calculus before deciding if they’re going to be there for them.
No, if you want her to go all in, if you want her to take the risk and brave the fear, then it sure helps if you’re there too, no matter what. There’s a cost to that, a pain and risk that comes from that sort of trust. After all, it might not work. Failure (or worse! embarrassment) might ensue. That’s precisely why it’s worth so much. Because it’s difficult and scarce.
Later, when it’s all good and it’s all working, your offer of support means very little. The artist never forgets the few who came through when it really mattered.
Who’s got your back? More important, whose back do you have?”
If you’re like me you probably long for friends who would be willing to tell you this and mean it with their actions. And if you’re like me you probably want to be that kind of friend. I wonder how richer our lives would be with these types of relationships. How confident would we be in our steps of faith knowing there was someone with us through thick and thin? What if there were people who stood by you even when you failed? How much more would we be willing to brave what we believe God calling us to do? I believe the church can be, and should be, a place where these types of relationships are formed.
Have you ever had someone stand up for you or stick by you during a mistake or failure? Have you ever stood by someone or stood up for them through a risk they took?